Home sweet home. Missed you guys.
Welp.
This cat.
#tbt last NYE. Drinking and judging.
Home.
Self Absorption at Discount Prices.: A Letter From My Future Hangover
Hey buddy,
I haven’t even been born yet, huh? I’m still drunkenness, but soon I’ll give way to a headache in the sober light of morning. Enjoy it while it lasts. Does it feel nice and warm and stupid? Good. It’s supposed to. Go with that.
Buh. I did.
This was posted on my timeline last night and now I’m questioning everything.
I still don’t know how to reply to replies! But, here:
Yeah. The article I linked to says as much, but does go on to say the while it is a “typical heteronormative abuse model” it “isn’t true across the board — it happens frequently in abusive same-sex relationships … as well.” For context, the original asker is in a same-sex relationship.
I’ve seen this type of behavior in a bunch of different types of relationships, but I also chalk that up to my own experience of living in liberal bubbles (Los Angeles/San Francisco). Emotions ARE powerful and it’s like people forget that when they start relationships. Everyone has emotions and they don’t stop having them, ever.
cont’d.
How do I bring up issues about our relationship with my partner without getting emotional? My partner refuses to talk to me if I cry.
Oh, shit! I didn’t realize you were dating an officer from the Emotions Police. That is rough going. I heard they also regulate how many YouTube videos of puppies falling asleep you can watch, too.
